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Reset the relationship you have with your teen TODAY inside my Calm Connection Introductory Mini Course!


Buy it now for only $27 (Normally $57)


Are you feeling frustrated with your teens'

Eye rolls/rude tone of voice.


Closed doors/walking away.


Heads always in devices.


Struggle to do school work.





Feeling like nothing works...



Limits and discipline lead to screaming yelling, rudeness or retreat.


Worried they don't respect you.


Ashamed or frustrated they don't listen to you.

Concerned about their future.







The Calm Connection Mini Course teaches you...


How to connect with your teen when they are rolling their eyes, glued to their tech, yelling, shrugging instead of talking or behind the closed bedroom door.


How to build your teenager's resilience (ability to cope with emotions and act responsibly).




Learn the most common mistakes parents of teens make and practical ways to talk to your teen that builds connection, emotion regulation and helps your teen take more responsible action.











Learn practical strategies to reduce your stress and overwhelm without having to book a yoga retreat or get up at 5am for meditation.

Experience a mindfulness meditation to help you feel less helpless and like you are failing as a parent.






Gain insight into how to have conversations with your teen that helps them to open up, develop self awareness, take responsibility and build resilience.






Course Includes


Video presentation (35 min)

Pdf download "Managing Parent Stress"

Pdf download "How to have conversations with teens that help them open up, take responsibility and build resilience."

10 min mindfulness video to reduce parenting stress and overwhelm





Dr Kirstin Barchia

PhD, MaClinPsych, BPsych(Hons)

Clinical Psychologist (AHPRA PSY0001341858)

Hi, I'm Kirstin. I am a clinical psychologist and have created resources for parents of teenagers to build more Calm and Connection in their households.

After counselling teenagers and their families on Sydney’s Northern Beaches for the past 20 years, I expanded to the online space to provide more support for struggling parents. Many parents are not supported at all when their teenagers are struggling. I have witnessed many great parents unknowingly make mistakes that have made their difficulties with their children worse... all because no one gave them the support and guidance they needed.

It is for this reason I developed the Calm Connection Program and other online resources for parents of teens to improve connection between teens and their parents so as to improve teenage resilience and emotion coping.

I am also a researcher and have conducted research with teenagers on bullying and aggression, lying, delinquent behaviour, and resilience. As a researcher it is important to me that parents are supported with strategies that are based on science and psychological research.


Move beyond feeling like you have to just put up with the "teenage behaviour" to getting your connection with your child back.